Celebrity

The current trend of celebrity, being popular and well loved. Something that inevitably will drive the human race into the ground. it has become increasingly popular for ignorance and stupidity to be revered over intelligence and wisdom; Even something as simple as common sense has been thrown to the wind as young and old pursue celebrity status.
I have no issue with being popular but the mere fact that people go to such lengths to disregard the thing that sets us apart from other life forms , just to receive some adoration is quite sickening.
it is more valuable now to be pretty, fake , funny, stupid, reckless etc.. than to be smart, hardworking, honest and respectful. We have now thrown away all our morals and self worth just to so that we can become rich and famous.

It might be love

        The most beautiful thing I've ever laid eyes on, the kindest heart, the goofiest smile, a brilliant mind. I cant say I don't think of you and smile, I wont say how my heart smiles every time I see you... How my breath falls away and my eyes are happy. These waves of emotion, the flood all theses thoughts and all these desires. I cant help but close my eyes and open my heart, And dream of you. You and the way that you walk. You and the way that you talk. You and the way that you laugh at your own inside jokes and me and the way I laugh secretly with you. I watch from a distance and wish you knew how beautiful you are to me. I wish you how you warm me up inside and give me hope. I wish you knew how you make me want to be better,I want to be my best. I wont say that I love you but I sure do feel something. I'm not sure what it is or what you do to me but I love it. I love how you make me feel.

Destiny

         Some people think their fate is inevitable, but I think your fate is in your hands. What you become can only be decided by the choices you make and the risks you are willing to take. Life is not about how quickly you get it right but what you will learn from the mistakes you have made.  You haven't failed at life because you have made a great number of mistakes, but you have gained great victory in overcoming the consequences of those mistakes. I've come to learn that in our greatest mistakes our most valuable lessons are learnt and the best memories made. Life would not be the same without these mishaps , these set backs. They make us who we are and show us how to be better at what we do. Sometimes it feels as though nothing and no one is on your side, all hell has broken loose against you and all that ca go wrong indeed has....But that is never the time to give up and stop you from believing.Because the harder the battle the sweeter the victory. These periods of trials are the process of  refinery, God chipping away at the impurities and the imperfections . He is taking us to the limit so that we can be the best we can be and the finish product is a master piece more beautiful than ever imaginable and even tough we may have chips and cracks...scars and bruises that we acquire along the way in the form of broken relationships, heartbreak, disappointments , failures...They add to the beauty of the master piece, You. You are an amazing and inconceivably wonderful being and all of the experiences and the lessons you have learnt make up the master piece that is you .
Remember nothing in life ever turns out flawlessly but they always end up perfect; just how God intended.

Dear future husbands

                                        



Dear Future husbands,

It's every girls dream to have their own ken and to be his Barbie. But in reality such perfection does not exist *tears*.  The dream doesn't have to be shattered though,Because every lady is a precious gem, priceless and unique deserving of all the finest things in life. Each one of us gems should experience the joy of having someone love us to bits and pieces. To be spoiled rotten just because...there is no reason for you not to shower us with your love ,with gifts and loads of affection. You guys are lucky to have such amazing individuals in your lives who love you beyond what words can describe and sacrifice a great deal on your for you.

  Here's a few things you need to know if you gonna be with your one and only all your life :

• If you love her ,tell her ...make her yours before she gets away
• kiss her every chance you get :)
• buy her gifts on random days and when she asks why tell her " Cuz I love you and you're amazing"
• Sing to her (only if you have a good voice) or make her a mix tape with her favorite songs and songs that will say how much you love her 
• Hold her. When she is sad , happy...just hold her so she knows you will never let her go.
• CUDDLE ft. kisses 
• Dance with her, let it be romantic/intimate or wild out with that crazy girl!
• Take her on dates that she will always remember (It's ok to spend some money on her she is worth it)
• Call her,text her all day to make sure she is alright
• Don't for get to open doors, pull out the chair...just treat her like a queen and even better than that.
• Take care of her when she is ill, when she is on her period 
• Make her laugh like crazy
  
  
  
  
  

  

  Dance

  
  

  

  Kiss Her

  

  Dates and gifts 
  
  
  
  

  

  Make her yours

That's just a short list, but there are a million things you can do to show her you love and you care.cherish her because you in her eyes you are the world. When she fell in love with you you became her world.
*And ladies take care of your babies. If they mean the world to you let them know. *




Yours truly,
Ashey-Mari









                                                                                                    

Forgiveness

   When you love someone or so much as care for them it doesn't matter what mistakes they make or how much they disappoint you, If  you really love them and you really care you will find it in your heart to forgive them. Keeping in mind that you yourself are human and for from perfect . We all make mistakes and will continue to make mistakes. God forgives us no matter how big we mess up even if you don't believe in him he still loves you and he still cares.

   Forgiveness is not just to benefit the person to which the forgiveness is granted, but it also benefits the person who grants the forgiveness. What sense does it make holding un-forgiveness in your heart ? Wouldn't  it be better to forgive and forget instead of keeping the anger, pain and disappointment all bottled up inside. It poisons you and makes you bitter towards people and life. Un-forgiveness is like a chain that keeps you bound , holding you back from going further in life.if you are always thinking of what was done to you in the past how will you heal ? And what happens when you treat other people badly just because of someone else's mistakes.that wouldn't be fair.

   You would then be the cause of someone else's pain. What if they don't forgive you and it goes on, A perpetuating cycle of  un-forgiveness and pain , Just because you couldn't be big enough , strong enough to forgive.  It takes humility to forgive not everyone is that humble. Maybe the reason you were disappointed was because your ego is too big, you're too proud, too self righteous. If you exalt yourself above others holding them to standards that you yourself fail to meet it is easy for them to disappoint you. If you just humble yourself just enough to forgive it would set you free.

Video : Forgiveness by TobyMac ft. Lecrae

A letter to my Friend

Dear Cupcake,

Often I think about how I feel
I wonder if this is even real
I've never thought I was capable of having these feelings
I never knew they existed inside of me
But now I've found my heart awakened
The very thing I thought was dead

I cant say how you make me feel
I don't think words would be enough

Every time you make me angry I just care for you more
I've fallen
A long way down
I've lost myself
A new me I've found
Someone greater
Stronger smarter

I've grown because of you
and I can't help but smile when I think of you
Maybe its just infatuation
because in all your humanness
and all your flaws
You are perfect
not because you hide who you really are
but because you're not afraid to show what's under your skin
and its beautiful, rough around the edges, jagged and uneven

Its takes my breath away, you take my breath away

I'm not what you want and i'm not what you think
I'll never be what your mind perceives

You have made me search myself
inside and out

I cant say I've decided to change for you
but i've done it for myself
I want to be a better person
because you have taught me so much

I Can't thank you enough
and I don't think you'd understand
what a better person I am
because you were honest and you didn't withhold the truth

You were always right and I should have listened
you changed me even if I didn't want you to
but it was for the better and I know that

This isn't in any order really I just had to write how I felt because I was drowning in my thoughts. I don't want to disappoint you or have you be disappointed in me because im not what you think or what you want me to be, because im not. I'm not my best right now and who knows how long it will take or if I will ever be. I'm not perfect and I will never be but I can try to be my best, and im not going to do it because of you but helped me to see that I wasn't trying hard enough.I have a lot to work on and I'm young and I'm stupid and i'm lost.i haven't gotten my life together but I will and I'd like so much for you to be by my side while I figure out all the craziness of life. I've never said this before but I look up to you, you are wise beyond your years and that is really hard to find and i don't want to give up this once in a life time friendship we have just because I was stupid.My life wasn't always easy but that doesn't give me the excuse to loose respect for myself and like you said what happened to me wasn't my fault but it honestly feels like it sometimes and i have hated me because of it but thats long gone and I have learned from it.Cant promise I wont be a bit of trouble sometimes but i promise you I'm worth the trouble you said it yourself. I don't know what else there is to say expect that I really appreciate you being there for me .


Your  friend,
Bunny

I'm a liar and so are you

If I were to tell the truth I'd still be lying ,  for the turth I've been telling all along was simply a lie .

How many times have you lied so much that you no longer know what the truth is or have you been lied to so much its hard to accept the truth because you no longer know what truth is. Either way its sad because of what you've become behind  the lies you've told or behind the wall you've built up because you  can no longer trust.

It hurts being lied. That's the simple truth , no way you can hide from it or try to mask it. 

The hurt it causes especially to the people whom you said you cared for...its like holding a gun to your brothers head .. pulling the tirgger and saying that will help you live longer (that's what the lie is )
Pulling the trigger and and saying you're sorry while you watch him blees to death with a smile on your face (that's what the lie does )

I know its easy to lie in whatever situation it may be but it never stops there you will have to covee up that lie with another and and soon it becomes a habit and then you inherit a name ...you're a liar with a capitol L .

As it stands there is only one thing we can do ..start telling the truth.
And the truth is we all have inherited that name
Yes
I am Ashonelle and I'm a liar
That's what I've become after all the little white lies I've told but I'm making myself a promise to cut down on the lying
And my friend you should make that promise too

There is someone you've lied to out there and they've died because of the bullet you put in their head....find them , apologize and tell them the truth . You may just bring them back to life